Intimacy & Empowerment Coaching

Intimacy

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Polyamory

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Empowerment

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Neurodivergence

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Kink

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Intimacy ✦ Polyamory ✦ Empowerment ✦ Neurodivergence ✦ Kink ✦

Playful. Unconventional. Radical.

I am here to help you get what you want. If you’ve ever been made to feel like you are “weird” or “too much”, or that your desires are “freaky” or just plain “wrong”, you’re in the right place. You deserve relationships that fit your needs, sex that fulfills your desires, and a sense of self that empowers you to live the life you dream of.

“She’s helped me get over some of my reservations with sex and self acceptance in ways that love alone can’t fix.”
— M.

I work with clients just like you on their relationships, sex lives, and self-empowerment. Every client is different, and my coaching is tailored to each individual based on their goals and “growing edges”, or areas they want to improve. Using concrete practices developed by the Somatica® Institute and approved by the American Board of Sexology, I will support you through a life-changing journey that leaves you grounded, shame-free, and able engage authentically with the world around you.

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Enter the relationship lab

Together, you and I will enter the relationship lab, where we will explore your desires, boundaries, feelings, and capacity. You will develop skills in real-time using the authentic relationship we build together as practice and experience that you then apply to your relationships to yourself and others.

Step One

We meet for a 15-minute discovery call to talk about your goals and how I can support you on them. If we seem like a good fit, then we move to step two.

Step Two

We work together on your goals by building a relationship together. By being in relationship with each other, I can support you and give you the kind of feedback you’d want from a partner. Collaborating in this way makes it easier to translate the skills you build in session to real life situations.

Sessions are 75 minutes and held over Zoom. I offer session packages to clients who have completed at least one session with me.

Step Three

I offer you ongoing support as you implement the skills we harnessed in session in your daily life.

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“Truly amazing in a million and a half ways and I recommend her to everyone as a place to help build the healthiest relationship with sex you can.”
— Argus

Frequently Asked Questions

  • My coaching practice is guided by building a relationship with our bodies and building a relationship with each other. Where therapy asks us to examine our thoughts, coaching empowers us to listen to our bodies. Therapy is often focused around developing coping mechanisms for difficult experiences, but coaching develops skills to engage with yourself and others in a way that takes active ownership over our lives rather than a passive fear or hopelessness.

  • Haha, if only! My coaching is a clothes-on practice with no genital stimulation involved. Think of coaching as giving you the ingredients to later bake a cake.

  • In the “container” of our coaching sessions, you and I will get to know each other and communicate authentically together. It’s called the “relationship lab” because we’re like scientists conducting experiments. The best way to experiment with the tools I teach you is to try them on me, in case they don’t work, then you’re not making explosive concoctions in public! Lots of metaphor to say that I’m basically your practice partner within the confines of the session.